The Secret To Catching & Keeping A Lover


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“Don’t play hard to get; BE hard to get.” @AddictiveDau #GetAddictedToTheGoodStuff  


Hey ADs,

We’ll let you into a little secret:

We used to be really bad at the whole dating/ new relationship thing.

We were either feeling depressed that we weren’t seeing anyone we fancied, or when we did happen to be dating someone, we spent the whole courtship feeling anxious that:


  • They might not like us as much as we liked them


  • We were coming across as desperate & clingy (probably cos most of the time, we were)


If you relate to either of these ‘EDFs’ (Early Dating Fears), you really do not want to miss today’s Life Nugget where we share our go-to tool for both attracting a romantic partner, and maintaining their interest.

The early stages of romance are always the toughest, because you spend the whole time second-guessing - not only yourself, but also what the other person’s thinking via the ‘subtext’ of their texts, words and actions.

The real problem is that the more consumed you become by this new person and relationship, the more you’ll likely find them backing away:


“The more you cling to a new love interest, the less desire they’ll have to cling to you.” @AddictiveDau #GetAddictedToTheGoodStuff

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Once you’ve had a chance to watch the Nugget, we’d love to hear how you’re going to put this week’s ‘To Do’ into practice to ensure you’re attracting - not repelling – potential or existing romantic partners.

We look forward to reading your comments below.

All our (non-clingy) love,

P & J xx